I am afraid this is not intended with Microsoft products for Windows Clients. The idea is to invest lesser time and budget into managing updates, contrary focusing of getting Patchmanagement done as less intrusive and effective as possible.
Of course you can define rings and some blockers in Intune. But there is no list of patches you are going to hand pick.
Based on your licensing Autopatch intensifies automation and uses global and your telemetry to define reliable secure holds for certain patches when incompatible states are known. Intune also offers Firmware and Driver Support of verified packages by the OEM (not comparable to WSUS drivers, which has been a horrible experience).
Same for Windows Server not using Intune but Azure Update Manager, included for free of use with active Windows Server Software Assurance.
Here you can fine grain define rings, deployment windows and restart options without the burden of picking patches.
In opposite to Intune, hand picking updates this is possible and manageable at scale, if you really want to, then you would choose for a rather manual approach.
Does this help?